In life, many a times, humans are very overwhelmed with petty things.
Things which blind them to look at situations clearly.

I am one of them. Last Sunday, I learned an important message from Pastor.
He reminded us of how we always blamed our age when it comes to memory.
We always give people the excuse that it is our age that causes us to forget things.

Humans program our mind to only want to remember the bad things that happen and forget about the good ones. Taking it for granted.

He gave a piece of advice to the men in church that day. That if you do not want to end up having a divorce. From this day, remind yourselves of all the good that once happened between each other. The days when you were in love with this person. The days when you made the decision that this person was the one that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. Learn to cherish the wonderful moments that you once had. Look at your partner once again in a different light.
Make an effort to remember all the times you were in loved with this person.

Men by nature, only want to remember about terrible times.
From that day, I want to make an effort in loving my husband again. Remind myself of all the good times we had. I also want to be grateful to GOD for all these. I want to remind myself that happiness was never self achieved but GOD given. I want to learn to humble myself that whatever happens, good or bad, I will not take it for granted.

This walk will never be easy but I know God will be there. He will pick me up if I make an effort to stretch out to him.